{our English holiday - continued}

Jane Austen's Northanger Abbey portrays Bath in a beautiful, romantic light.  Persuasion, not so much.  I  think I'll stick with Northanger Abbey. Bath is beautiful!  The people in Bath were so lovely (at times it's more noticeable within).

The biggest question on everyone's mind is . . . has Sir Thomas had need of any English hospital facilities?  Happily, NO!  Being married to such a freak-accident prone man even causes me to wonder about the sanity of our travels.  He is so brave.  I think he really is Superman.  If it weren't for him, I never would have been able to see the world.  I'm not the brave type.  I'm so grateful for him and this opportunity.

We have become accustomed to the English method of driving and even made peace with the roundabouts.  After touring the beautiful countryside, we said good-bye to the people mover we hired and have now experienced the tube and double-deckers buses.

In Bath, we visited the Roman baths . . . original, right?  I loved it!  

The beautiful arched doorway of Bath Abbey . . .

Didn't I mention how lovely the people are?  Rachel found this out through a horrifying first hand experience.  Silly Girl!  She left her beloved camera in the loo after visiting the Roman baths.  This was only discovered AFTER we were out on the street.  We approached a very distinguished looking gentlemen in The Pump Room to inquire about her prized possession.  After offering a VERY detailed description of her camera, it was returned!  See, they are such lovely people and return valuable items that don't belong to them.  We are taking precautions to avoid a repeat occurrence.  :)

I have the MOST wonderful family and they absolutely indulged me!  We got to visit 40 Gay Street, Bath, London!  It's the home of the Jane Austen Centre.  She lived in Bath for a short while and I REALLY wanted to see it. 

Following our visit to the Jane Austen Centre they indulged me again with a quick stop down the street at 25 Gay Street, which was her actual residence.  It is currently owned by some very smart dentist.  They are obviously wonderful people because one of the lovely assistance offered to close the door for us to get a proper picture.  (The door was propped open to allow them to enjoy the beautiful weather.)

My original attempt at this post mysteriously vanished and I've had to start over!  I'm out of time so enjoy the pictures for now and you'll hear more later!

The Royal Crescent in Bath.  (We also stopped by number 7 in The Circus.  It was recently the home of Nicholas Cage.  That is interesting trivia my friends.)

The tunnel under the Thames

The Tower of London

Tower of London

Benjamin Franklin's residence in London

Wait until you hear about this!  Protestors!  We stayed safe. :)

Big Ben

Buckingham Palace

. . . and we're off!

{on holiday - stonehenge}

We're here!  Sir Thomas is the bravest man in the world.  We rented a car for the the first few days of our holiday - scary.  With no intentions of driving in London, we thought we would enjoy the English countryside.  Roundabouts are not my favorite.  By the way, they are the predominant choice of British engineers.  Driving on the WRONG side of the road is CRAZY.

We are learning a new language!  The "free-O-free" appears as "303" on roadside signs, "straight on" is the beginning of many sentences, and apparently we are the ONLY people who do not smoke although we have been approached by a very nice young man wanting to know if we had any"ciggys."

So, first stop was Stonehenge!

I forgot the cord that allows my camera to converse with my computer so we are using the iPhone pics for blogging while on holiday.  (Guess I'll have to post more after our holiday!)

 Following Stonehenge, we visited the beautiful cathedral in Salisbury.  Sadly, it was a bit dark for iPhone photos.  We are having a wonderful time & the people are incredibly helpful and friendly.  That has probably been the most surprising thing of all.  I never expected them to be rude or unkind but they are absolutely lovely. 

We are now headed to Bath.  (*sigh* Jane Austen)  We won't have internet tonight although we will have so much to tell!

{the exciting life}

Is this REALLY my life?!?!  I can't believe today has arrived!  I keep pinching myself - it's not St. Patrick's Day either.  My life is generally rather routine and today even started routinely but it's about to get EXCITING.

India is ready for exciting.

We're all ready for exciting.

We are flying to England tonight.  Not New England.  The REAL London, England.

I've been very self-conscious and not wanted anyone to know.  I feel bad that not everyone gets to go.  The bummer . . . Nolan is in Argentina and won't be in England with us.  

After feeling embarrassed to be going I decided to get over it.  We got round-trip tickets from Houston to Heathrow for $294 a person!  How could I pass that up?  Obviously, I couldn't.  What's even better than tickets for $294?  Enough frequent flyer miles to pay for the tickets.  I know!  I wonder why I'm getting all these blessings too! That's why I feel so self-conscious.  I want everyone to be as blessed as I am.

We will have internet at some of our lodging locations.  Hopefully that means a little blogging!  Since this blog is my fancy new-spangled way to journal I'm  going to think of my posterity and blog about the trip anyway.  I'll also keep hoping that no one hates me after this!  

I agree, I really have been blessed beyond what I deserve.

{the birthday princess}

Raising children is wonderful.  I love the carefree moments.  India came inside last week and announced, "I. Am. Amazing!"  

She was having so much fun riding through the grass with the wind in her hair and her arms opened wide.  At times, I wish it could stay this way forever.

My children don't want it to stay this way . . . they like growing up!  I'm trying to not be sad about the whole process.  I'm actually rather tempted to cry.  This will be a rather long post because she just turned TWELVE.  I don't want to forget a single moment of her fabulous journey to becoming.

Saturday, March 20, 1999 was a miraculous day!  Our little princess made her debut into the world 

at 4 lbs. 11 ozs - and really early.  She was excited about entering this world and was ready to get started. She came home early too - only weighing 4 lbs. 5 ozs.  

She was definitely excited about life!

Sunday, March 20, 2011, in her opinion, was a magical day. She has been so excited for her 12th birthday!  It is an exciting event because she gets to wear make-up and attend Young Women's.  (The youth organization in our church for girls.)

India has never been average and I think her ideas for a birthday party were particularly different.  She invited a distinguished group of guest on Saturday to help her celebrate . . . 

Thank you Elders (beginning on left) Marlar, O'Conner, Fonnesbeck, Kemp, Orndorff, Hoffman, Reed, and Jenkins for coming! 

Rachel is the best!  We're so glad she was here too!

The missionaries were SO sweet and brought India birthday cards.  With eight missionaries, they got two cards they could all sign.  It was perfect!

I love their sense of humor! 

(Elder Clunas completed his mission on Valentine's Day but there was no way he could miss this party!  He managed to attend in spirit with his face attached to Mickey's body.)

Some people in this world are beyond amazing.  I know some of those people!  The Serdar's. Their wonderful son is serving in our mission although he is no longer in our specific area.  We love him.  We love his family.  Crazy, but we got to meet his family on a trip last year and all I can say is, "They. Are. Beyond. Amazing!"  They sent India this beautiful birthday gift!  (Sir Thomas is beyond amazing like the Serdar's and he stayed in the background grilling hamburgers!)

Missionaries are another group of "beyond amazing" people.  We were VERY surprised when they arrived with a special birthday gift for our birthday girl . . .

An "autographed" Justin Bieber poster!  (I still can't stop laughing.)  These guys are THE best!

Their comments and signatures were so classic!  (Including the ghost signature of one Elder Clunas.)

We had the usual birthday festivities.

Another tradition . . . the birthday guest gets to choose their piece of the cake.

India entertained us with one of her many talents . . .

As much as she loves the new poster, she had a better idea!  The missionaries would make a better poster than Justin B.  We're going to have this made into a poster and get it autographed!

After seeing the card and the gift, you won't be surprised with their further creativity in pictures . . .

The concept:  Everyone jump together and get a great air shot.

The reality:  Hilarious!  Synchronizing the jump was harder than expected.

The question:  Should we begin the jump ON the count of three or should we already be mid-air?? Jump AFTER three?  (This post is already long or I would show you a few more FUN attempts!)

Success: 

So, my beautiful princess is now 12 and all smiles!

Yesterday, as I took this picture before church I wanted to freeze time.  

India is 12!  They've grown up so fast.  It is still quite the process to get a picture of everyone looking at the camera, eyes open, smiling . . . I'm glad that hasn't changed!  (Keaton is a happy guy but was being funny for the pictures with his "serious" look but everyone's eyes are open and they're looking at the camera!)  

I NEVER want this to end!

{lessons learned}

Sometime last year Nolan was able to send us a disk of pictures of his mission (through a missionary returning to the States).  

I love looking at them!  I also wish I had more. :)

Nolan amazes me.  Each week as I receive his letters I see his growth.   I have learned so much from him these last few weeks.  He has taught me about some important principles.

"Virtue"

". . . It seems to me that Virtue isn't just something pretty, as it appears in the scriptures.  It's something hard and durable.  It is self-discipline to the point that we control our thoughts and keep them where they are supposed to be.  It is complete self control in our thoughts and our actions.  It keeps us from acting rashly, it makes our knowledge valuable, and gives our patience a purpose.  While it is to garnish our thoughts unceasingly, it is to garnish our charity that our charity may have more strength, for how are we to love with a pure love without sacrifice?"

I had never looked at virtue from that perspective before!  

"Patience"

". . . I've learned a lot about patience.  When I first started studying patience, I thought that patience was really slow and inefficient.  But then I realized it is actually the most efficient thing that we can do.  . . . Patience is not simply waiting, it is changing what is in your power to change, and not becoming frustrated when obstacles come your way."  

"You may not be able to change the people around yourself.  While you may be able to influence them to improve, you can have no real say in their actions.  But you can change yourself and that requires patience and humility.  So really, patience is our disposition to adapt to any obstacle or situation that we may affront without adverse reactions."

"It is doing the best we can in all that we do but not becoming upset when it takes more time or effort than we may have first anticipated.  I have learned that patience is very efficient while being humble and meek.  If it takes as much faith to accept that the Lord's answer is 'No' as it does to take a miracle, then it takes more than just faith, it takes patience."

He has taught me so much!

 My heart continues to go out to the Japanese people and the incredible challenges they are facing.  They appear to have learned these great principles as an entire nation.   To me, as a whole, they are virtue and patience on display.

Public virtue means to voluntarily sacrifice personal benefit for the good of society.

The Japanese people possess public virtue.  I treasure their example.

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After personally being affected by two hurricanes in recent years, I am better able to empathize with them.  Our challenge was so minor compared to their reality . . . it looks like a nightmare.

(This woman is so beautiful!  She is so composed and regal regardless of her surroundings.)

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We were not sent to earth to be mediocre.  The strength of the human spirit inspires me.

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How I wish I could be there to help.  I'm thankful for the privilege to pray and knowledge that a loving Father in Heaven hears those prayers.  Still, I wish I could hug them, comfort them, and help them rebuild.

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My sweet missionary has learned these lessons through the Spirit and diligent study.  I wonder how the Japanese people developed them so well.

For now, Nolan is serving in Fiorito where he is being given many opportunities to learn a lot about virtue and patience.  Yes, he is tired of getting robbed and / or threatened twice a week but I know the blessings that will come as he learns these lessons.  

Now, I have to figure out how to learn them myself!

Fiorito:

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